Learn to be happy! Confidence and Success
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Do you build ways, ways of communication, where you can meet other people and share ideas with them? Or do you build walls in your mind that separate, separate, protect you from others? I think all the materials and effort that goes into building a wall is a waste, it’s all a waste of labor and time because those walls will fall anyway.
The truth is that we are Creatures who must strive for spiritual unity with all humanity, and weak walls built to separate and separate from other people will never last long. But different in ways. Do you build paths that connect you with people? Just like the two arteries to the brain in the human body, you need them in your daily business and spiritual and social life. Do you have this relationship? How often do you talk to people? I would like to say that spiritual, family and kinship ties are higher than usual business ties.
Have you heard of empathic listening and the empathic method? Have you ever heard of the quiet boulevards of empathy? Do you want to be an empath? This is a person who has developed the ability to empathize. Do you build a path from heart to heart, paths of mutual understanding, paths of compassion for misfortune and sorrow. Does your spirituality begin with cooperation? Will you build such streets or quiet alleys of love and understanding, full of fragrant, white-flowered tree acacias (lookers)? There is no need to overwhelm them with words. They are smiling, comforting and these scenes are covered with tree leaves:
Take some time today to decide whether you want to spend energy, mental and spiritual energy building walls to separate yourself from your loved ones, or whether you want to build intellectual arteries of collective thinking, wide boulevards of empathy and silent alleys of spiritual unity. By deciding what to build, you determine the nature of your life. It can be a world of walls that keep you out, or a world of paths that you can travel to endless joy. The choice is up to you.
Do you consider yourself happy or unhappy? Do you think your life is full of success or failure? When we think about our unfulfilled hopes and dreams, our failed grand plans, people often blame fate or so-called luck or bad luck. But this is nonsense (absurd)? Some people say: «This is my lucky (or unlucky) star» or «Today is a new life for me, a new day, a new me» on the contrary «I wonder when I will get rid of school, work or family again». Why do we say this? We speak to hide our shortcomings, mistakes, and sins from ourselves. We want to deceive ourselves with words, but in reality the life we want is not happening, or it is happening, but still there is a feeling of emptiness inside, as if something is always missing. Remember: We succeed or fail depending on the nature (level) of our consciousness.
I think Shakespeare said it best in Julius Caesar, where he says, «Sometimes men are masters of their own destiny. Blame for mistakes, dear Brutus, not from the stars, but from us alone.»
We die at the bottom, but in reality, we can be the masters of our destiny if we can bring our thoughts and actions into alignment with the creative purpose of our lives. If we can «attach» our thoughts to our purpose, then we become the masters of our destiny. But how willing are most of us to trust our inner guide? No, we prefer to rely on our judgments, our old habits, and when things go wrong, we are ready to blame God, fate, the stars, or anything else that has not lived up to our hopes and beliefs.
if it were possible to show all the details of the past, our past complaint, then we could see where and when we recently went wrong, and identify the point where we strayed from the right path to the wrong star. we would see where we had made an irreparable mistake. you see, we could have made a choice. And that choice was ours, but we can’t turn back that time, but we can fix all of our past, because we have the present moment and the future.
God gave us life as a gift and a test because he gave us free will. only we, as human beings, choose what will improve or destroy our lives. we can change our choices at any time and start a new life. do not blame the stars, anything, anyone for your problems, remember that you are created in the image and likeness of the «great truth», if you want to blame yourself, blame only for something, blame only for acting as a slave to the stars or some other matter.
Only our mistakes and failures hinder our destiny and there is no written destiny that tries to hurt or harm us. The «great truth» seeks one thing: to add to the absolute good (the little paradise) that is not yet formed in our lives. But the «Holy Book» with its seal, so to speak, the great paradise (the abode of absolute peace, purity, goodness, goodness) will not be established in the first life, although this does not mean that one should not strive for it. Therefore, the Creator uses various methods to save us from hell (the place of absolute purification and healing) in the first life: hunger, war, disease, etc. b. Consider the word hell a severe trial. In general, not everyone can enter the big paradise without going through a small or big hell, that person either passes through the small hell of this world or passes through the big hell of the hereafter and enters the big paradise. The abstract concept that people think of as happiness in this world is a small paradise, the Bible says that the small paradise, that is, the paradise of the world, has nothing to do with the big paradise. True happiness is based only on truth. Truth is useful knowledge and proven science for the will, spiritual light for the mind and light of faith for the heart.
In any situation we keep the elements of goodness, if you accept the truth of your situation, then suddenly the written fate is behind you and you know that everything will be fine in both lives. why? because we have joined the path of
Do you like beautiful packaging (the outer shape of each item)? most of us like it. I had an interesting idea about beautiful packaging during a trip to a large store. I was looking at the goods I needed, and a lady was looking for a special fashionable soap on the next shelf. this was not a soap I would buy for regular use. The soap is wrapped in transparent paper, packed in a cardboard box, wrapped in transparent paper with a non-glossy and tight fit. these small soap boxes are packed in a large cardboard box and covered with a beautifully painted transparent film. it was all held together by a small paper ribbon with a bouquet of artificial violets. an impressive package of three bars of soap, and it occurred to me that its purpose is only to clean your exterior. then when I heard the seller smiling politely at the buyer and asking him a question, it really shook me, I experienced a great excitement. she said, «Shall I wrap your purchases (three trendy soaps) in nice paper like a gift?» said. I couldn’t believe what I heard. To be honest, at first I didn’t believe how to make it more beautiful, I couldn’t figure it out, but then I realized that whatever you buy in that store, they wrap it in a beautiful package and make a mouth-watering masterpiece.
Are there not many such situations in our life? For example, soap, a completely normal, healthy soap, but many times it is so beautifully packaged that we begin to lose the idea of its original purpose. The primary purpose of this packaging is to provide a person with soap for washing clothes. However, the soap was repackaged and repackaged several times, and as a result, the concept of its main function was lost. We seem to be more concerned with packaging than our own cleanliness. We seem to be looking for beauty rather than soap, but it’s all just a false, deceptive appearance, advertising, so to speak! Nowadays, our world has also become advertising, external form, beautiful packaging, without meaning, and the worst consequences – most of them end in seduction and deception. Nowadays (online) Internet is full of advertising, social networks are full of advertising, (offline) if you go out on the street, you will not find a place where there is no advertisement.
In our life, we often deal only with the external form, packaging (packaging), deception of advertising, wrapped in several layers, just like beautiful gifts, as a result of which we forget to have our eyes on the spiritual inner form, essence and content of the main world.
I want to talk about the meaning of life. We are very often busy with work, possessions, family, financial pursuits, and we can’t even stop ourselves, because of such excessive activities, we begin to lose the meaning of real life. Under the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we begin to lose sight of the true meaning of life. you are the true reflection of life, not external factors. it means that you are the true manifestation of the «universal mind», the divine power. don’t allow yourself to get wrapped up in the world of red-green, glittering, flashing, and then wrap yourself up again, so you lose the meaning of life and you yourself forget this basic concept called «the meaning of life». Don’t overlook this basic concept.